For someone who has been so strong since the day I've known her, it is upsetting to watch her fall miserably as if I was catching a pathetic love story on TV.
I totally understand how a person feels when she has lost someone so dearly. So much love and effort is there and now a thick arrow of poison stabbed through a soft, tender heart... Why have arguments, fights and misunderstandings happen all the time during the peak time of a love relationship when the beginning of it was all so Cloud 9? Ok, nothing is perfect right. Yes agree, yet there is always a solution or a platform where both sides can talk it out and not just shut up & pretend he is all at fault & let the other one scream her lungs out? Even if the relationship you think you're in isn't the one for you, I believe that speaking out helps clear the minds of both parties. NO assumptions, NO misery, perhaps only TEARS for weeks can make you feel better afterwards.
Often, one side is left confused, lost and problems arised from there. One will blame oneself for being such and such, ruin oneself by the consumption of alcohol & ciggie, tend to stay at a corner & clouds of saddening thoughts for days. All the months, years of mushy-ness, sweetpies gone into fake promises and hopes.
I myself learnt some lessons in life, esp when it comes to love relationship. I don't take it too seriously and hope so much from it. Like now, I take little steps which determines how well I can cope with it and rushing or pushing it to the limit only leads to failure. Hope only for today, not for next week, month or years ahead. Sometimes you got to think for yourself, and not the other. Indeed sharing & caring are some of the elements that make both the most "happiest" people in the world. There're definately many other elements that make the whole relationship a success. P/s: Lolx, sounds like a career path.
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when you tell me these things, it make me remember our past, Past which take us where are now! although it is not a good past memory, but it doesnt matter, because is already past, what we should do is look for the future. Like what you always say "be happy, cos you will never know what will happen 2moro" right?
A relationship is about both parties trusting, caring, loving each other. When two person want to be together, both of them need to agree, but when you break up, only need one side to be, then the whole relationship wont be like before, because one heart isnt there with you anymore, even if the body is with you but you will never capture the heart again.
This is kind a sad for most case, but dont give up until the last mins, cos you never what is happening next, be strong and dont give up!!
Haha, I learn a lot too from my pervious relationship and my relationship now!! It is all good now!!
I love you dear!!
i figured tat when u r in a relationship, get rdy for the time u'll b hurt bcoz life is definitely not a bed of roses, so is love. Don't u tink? i may sound pessimistic, but tis is wat i call being realistic..living happily ever after only happen in fairytale, but sad to say, life is life and it aint no fairytale life. So, wat lili said is true..tink of wat to do tomolo and not nex week bcoz u wont noe wat might really happen nex week. is better to take tings step by step then go to a big leap bcoz mayb when u r leaping, there might be a big giant hole waiting for u to fall right into. So, being heartbroken i guess is essential to go thru during a relationship, is how one overcomes tat heartbrokeness tat is the killer. but i guess if someone who r strong, they will tink wif their heart and with the right mind, they will overcome and be strong and rdy to be back in the game! is all abt tinking fwd and not backward..
and i love you too, li! lolz..*wink*
if life is a supper, love just a dessert of your supper. However, love can be forever but relationship won't.
If life is a supper, love would be a dessert of the supper. However, love can be forever, but relationship won't. Cherish everything now and look forward, I thought it could be the best way to go. :)
If life is a supper, love would be a dessert of the supper. However, love could be forever, but relationship won't. Cherish everything now and look forward, I thought that could be the best way to go. :)
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