Friday, September 15, 2006

Loyal or not

People say dogs are loyal to their owners. Do people stay loyal to their partners too? If they are committed there is no reason they shouldn't stay loyal with their partners. Fights and small conflicts occur and it makes us stronger when we deal with future miunderstandings. This does not mean that couples should give up easily on their relationship they've built for weeks, months or years, even. Nevertheless, some took for granted in the relationship they've commmitted. Being unloyal is not an excuse when you're somewhere else. If you know you can't get involved in a relationship while you're away from home country, better end it there and then. You know you'll end it someday, why not before you commit yourself here? It is unfair for the person who falls for you, thinking he/she can be with you. There is always misinterpretation in body language among people. Perhaps that's why it is difficult to know what a person is thinking while the gesture he/she puts up is not synchronise with its thought. Anyway, this topic is my personal view. What do you think? What does loyal mean to you? :)

2 comments:

theone said...

Shea li...

Loyal, is something that when two person will be to each other once they are committed, when you say there, fights and small conflicts which make us stronger in terms of dealing with future minunderstanding...

well, this is about the future...i know we havent had much time left, so let just fellow the flow, make the best out of it, cos you will never know what will happen 2moro!!

Until then, dont think too much about it...Love you!!

Anonymous said...

I think for me, relationship this thing really depends on what u want it to be... if u want it to be serious, then u'll be loyal or put every effort to make sure this relationship lasts as longer as possible... on the other hand, if relationship to u doesnt mean anything, i guess u won't want it to restrict or constrain u in anywhere... I guess that is called commitment, hahaha~~~ future is in ur hand, do whatever u want it to be~~~